How to be a natural Kim Kardashian
In Year 6, I was told my hips will get wider, my boobs will get rounder, and at some point along the way, blood will start pouring out of my fanny. This, understandably, left my knowledge of pubescent physiological changes as far reaching as a gradual transition into a natural Kim Kardashian, and a rendition of Saw IV in my pants.
What is self objectification?
Self objectification is looking at oneself with a view to answering the question: “Would I fuck me?”. We don’t necessarily clock ourselves doing this, but sadly, the vast majority of us exist as if a pair of critical eyes float beside us, constantly judging our fuckability on the way to the corner shop, to work, to school and even in our own homes.
What do our mothers pass onto us?
My mum taught me how to hate my body.
Not intentionally, of course, she is none other than the best, most loving mum in the universe, but, nevertheless, through her own body dissatisfaction, I learnt what I should hate about mine.